If you’re feeling stuck on how to prepare your toddler for a photo session and it’s preventing you from booking — let me tell you a story.
By the time my oldest son was in the first grade, I had rushed him to the ER 5 times, twice by ambulance. Broken bones, dog bite to the face, appendicitis, bee stings (he’s allergic). I honestly felt like I was living with a tiny Tasmanian devil, who was sent to planet Earth to wreak ALL the havoc. In fairness to him, he couldn’t control much of what happened but still the chaos that came from such a small person was unbelievable!
When I tell you there is nothing your older child can do during our session that will shock, appall, or gross me out, I mean it!
Here are my 5 best tips for preparing your toddler the day of the photo session:
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Include Them in the Process
It’s perfectly normal for older siblings to feel excited, curious, or apprehensive about this whole picture-taking thing. Throughout parts of the session, I will follow their lead. I have them show me their room, let them pick a favorite toy or suggest a cozy spot for some of the photos. When children feel included, they are more likely to cooperate.
Their Favorite Things
It’s important to have familiar toys, blankets, or snacks on hand to help keep your older child comfortable and entertained during the session. Familiar items can provide a sense of security and help prevent meltdowns or restlessness.
Incorporate Play
This is a MUST during a photo session with a toddler. Whether it’s blowing bubbles, playing with a toy, or singing songs, fun activities can help distract and redirect their energy.
Embrace Imperfections
I cannot stress this enough! The session is all about capturing REAL moments, not perfection. Children won’t always follow the script, and that’s okay! Sometimes the most genuine and endearing moments, and in turn, heartwarming photos, happen when things don’t go exactly as planned.
Positive Reinforcement
It’s easy to forget how powerful our words can be to the little people in our lives. Throughout the session, it’s important to maintain a positive and encouraging attitude toward your older child. Praise them for their cooperation and participation. This positive approach can create a more enjoyable experience for everyone.
Lastly, I’ve been photographing babies and small children for awhile now and as a mom myself, I understand the unique challenges that come with wrangling energetic little ones into picture-perfect poses. While “picture-perfect” is nice to achieve, it’s never the goal. If all else fails, I’ll work to keep their time in front of the camera short and sweet, ensuring that your family memories are as authentic and beautiful as possible.
If you’re ready to book a photo session for the whole family, let’s get the ball rolling.
